Opportunities

Never say never... Isn't that a reasonable statement? Well....

Opportunities come when you least expect. Life is full of doors which at times open unexpectedly.

An unexpected door opens. What would you do? What do you do? Is it the right time? Is this real? Those are just a handful of questions which rush through like waves crashing against the shores. Waves which can lead to joyful moments, to peaceful moments; hence, flowering our brain with sparkling and brighting motivation. Nonetheless, these can incur fear, insecurity, and fallible ideation. 

So how do you define a good opportunity? What can tell me it is the right time and the right opportunity? There are omnifarious explanations and/or ways to make a reasonable processing. Though, I can only see one. So how do you define it? Do you know the answer? I sure can answer my personal case; moreover, make an attempt to explain your unique experience and situation. This last attempt, to explain and/or understand your distinctive event can be a laborious and intense development of eminent failure. Yes, eminent failure may sound abrupt but mostly warrantied because who am I to answer that question for you?

Whatever you do, surround yourself with individuals that can nourish you. Selective people that can empower, listen, and above all support you. No matter what the decision of peculiar event may be, ultimately it is your decision and only you can be at peace with yourself.

"It is what it is"

"It is what it is"; a simple but yet profound phrase. On Tuesday April 30, 2013 we paid tribute to a great man, a gentle giant that was part of many people's life. Our beloved Kevin L. Gregory is now in paradise.

Many words come to my mind when I think of Kevin. I had the honor of working with him a little over five years. During our time together I got to see a special human being which cared deeply for people. Kevin was a role model and mentor who always had a funny way of looking at things.

Through difficult moments and good days he would always see the situation at hand as an opportunity to be challenged, as an opportunity to bring a new outcome. Kevin was a family man and a great cook.

Kevin I say to you now (as you would always tell me) enjoy "another day in paradise" and look over all those you touch to carry your memory and respects in our hearts for years to come.

Kevin L. Gregory

1951-2013

Decisions

Decisions can be compared with puzzles. They have various parts which at times may be uncertain to understand and analyze. Pieces are all over the place. There are moments where particular pieces may not be noticed immediately; moreover, they are intricate and unique in their shape, size, and other anatomical characteristics. Some pieces are just beneath the surface. While others require an integrative order to be part of the puzzle.

We, humans, at times see decisions right in front of our eyes. Some decisions may not be in accordance with popular standards and social adherence. It is your decision and only you can make it. At the end of the day you must render your defense to your conscious. 

Yes, at times the decisions we make are painful. But think of it this way; how much painful is it to make this decision at the present time; instead of, letting it free and resulting in uncontrollable pain which unleashes likes a hose without proper cap?

Friendship

Here is where we all differ. A friendship is a relationship; one that ties two individuals in a journey of life. So far that statement is agreeable by everyone. Now, what entails a friendship? A multitude of aspects entail a friendship; however, once I was told  three characteristics which we all can relate to.

First, a friendship requires acceptance. Though, many characteristics can be associated with friendships; acceptance holds an important place. Look at this way, when you met one of your friend there were a set of traits, actions, behaviors, values, and other infinite aspects which led to the beginning of a friendship.  As the friendship grew there are aspects which may differ. These aspects are simple enough and can come go. We have gotten to a point of not seeingeye to eye at every moment of life, at every society's turn. Well it then we use our acceptance. Just because we have different views on a situation does  not mean the end of our friendship; instead, it is the opportunity of learning from each other.

Second, a friendship contains respect. We may differ on certain aspects which at times can lead to discussions but then again we have to maintain mutual respect. It takes more than discussion, respect entails a level of confidence and trust for one another. Yes, friends have differences; indeed, differences is what make us unique. Differences make a friendship which stands through adversity. A true friendship holds more than a smile. A true friendship can lead its members to growth.

Third, a friendship is developed on and by honesty.